We just say things differently in Australia - like torch. I'd ask, 'Can I have the torch?' It seems to fall flat when I say, 'Can I have the flashlight?'
I don't feel like I've hit my stride. So I wonder what the moment will be when I get to be who I want to be.
I've found in my life that the parts that you're right for are the parts that you get. It's really usually quite easy because you're kind of right.